> We are really not sure what to do or how to do it, we do
> think our 1st step is to get her to a Dr. but what if she
> wont go, then what?? Can we make her go?
Darlene,
Unfortunately situations like this are all too common; families that know something is wrong but who don't know what steps to take.
Given the information that you have described, I think it is important that your mother-in-law be seen by a doctor. Given that she could be threat to herself or others, you could have her taken to the hospital for a psychological evaluation on a 48-72 hour hold (this allows a hospital to hold someone against their wishes if they are a threat to themselves or others. I would talk with her physican or if he/she is not responsive call the area's hospital crisis line. If you are in larger city, check to see if any of the hospitals have a special geriatric psychiatric unit.
Additionaly, the power of attorney (if durable - that is valid when someone is not competent) would also allow you to seek treatment for her.
There are several reasons that her behavior has decompensated and it is important to determine a cause. Malnutrition, dehydration, drug interactions can all impact behaviors as well as more physiological conditions or Alzheimer's/dementia.
Given her fragile state it is better that intervention is taken in a medically controlled setting, than having her potentially hurt someone or something where the police would be called in.
Please let me (and others on this forum) know how things are going and please do not hesitate to post again.
Carla MacGregor
Transitions, Inc.
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