Vocal Reaction to Displeasure 

Dear Reader, Have you ever had the reaction that I had while in the company of someone who vocally, and vociferously, reacted to something that displeased her? A large group was gathered for a special picnic with music, dancing, and other activities planned for their enjoyment.    As soon as the music started, she complained that it was much too loud.  I suggested that she turn down her hearing aids, but she replied that she had already done this, and it was still too loud.  Actually, it wasn't the type of music that I care for, but I also know that many do.  I then suggested, and I probably should not have, that she "rise above it" and ignore it so that others could enjoy it. The reason I am really writing about this episode is because I learned a lesson and hope to profit from it.  This had affected me so negatively that I don't want to be around her again, and I certainly don't want anyone to feel that way about me.  It is not possible to please everyone, but if you don't enjoy something don't spoil it for others.  Vent your feelings to a friend in a private setting if you have that need.  A happy face makes others feel that way too.  I should really say:  a happy face and a cheerful voice. Grandma